If you can look at another person and see yourself in them you could never judge them.  I understand how hard that is.  We don’t look alike. We don’t act alike. We don’t sound alike.  But we all know, we all know, that on the deepest level we all came from, and are going to the same place.  We are taking different paths and we will all get there.  For now, try with all your soul’s peace to never ever judge someone for anything.  Just try.